It was never, ever in any of my training to learn how to guide a family on what’s acceptable to spend on their loved one’s final service. I never heard “If you loved Mom enough, you’d buy this casket” or “ that type of casket doesn’t really show how much you loved your husband, does it?” Rather it was about a service and the memorialization
pieces that provided the most VALUE to the family in creating this final tribute. The VALUE of the services and memorialization pieces, right? There was nothing in this process that equated the amount of love to the amount of money spent. Quite the contrary – Paws To Angels provides a service where the value of the service delivered far outweighs any amount of money spent!
Furthermore, I have never heard people having a conversation about when to stop providing medical care to someone because of the expense of the care.
But, I find it almost amusing that people are forthright with these opinions when it comes to pets. For those that aren’t pet parents, there are opinions on what’s “acceptable” to spend on health care, on daily care, and ultimately on the final arrangements for the pet. And, the only time that scrutiny comes into play is when it’s “too much.” Whatever that number is – based on each person’s own opinion!
62% of our society has a pet. And, as a pet parent, I, as well as other pet parents, take pride in being a responsible pet parent. It’s what we sign up for when we take one of these furry creatures into our homes. It’s an option that we have that we knowingly and willingly commit to when we accept this role.
But, it’s a role that for the 38% of our population leaves us open to shame and criticism. When all we want to do is celebrate these little creatures when they are alive – and pay tribute to them when they die.
In a way that’s right for us! And, let me be the one to determine what’s the right amount to pay for this type of honor! It’s what I WANT to do!